I know they exist, and I know I am one. I tried to find some objective definitions of alpha females but couldn’t find any. So my working definition is that an alpha female is strong, confident, and a leader. The problem is that many people of both genders really can’t stand alpha females I think this is because they feel threatened. A man who is a strong, confident leader is an alpha. A female who is a strong, confident leader is a bitch. What do you think?